We all make mistakes; some big, some small. The key is to be able to forgive yourself. We talk a lot about forgiving others and letting things go, but sometimes we forget just how hard it is to forgive yourself. How hard it is to let go of guilt and shame.
How Can I Actually Forgive Myself
The hardest part here is actually forgiving yourself. We say we do all of the time, but we often don’t truly let things go. We let it fester inside ourselves until it is visible on our faces.
You Are Always Learning Universal Lessons
It is really helpful to keep in mind that every single thing we go through is a Universal lesson designed to bring us closer to our life purpose. So anything that you do/anything that happens to you is meant to. That may be a hard pill to swallow, but it’s true. When lessons occur we are meant to learn something and then move on, if we don’t learn the lesson you’ll find yourself ending up in the same scenario over and over again. That’s something I can definitely relate to. I would find myself in the exact same situation, feeling guilt and shame and then go out and do the exact same thing again, even though I had vowed not to.
Seeing The Light
If you’re like me, it’ll take you a while to learn your lesson. You’ll think that you can outsmart the Universe and that you don’t really have to change. You’ll believe that if you push down the guilt, embarrassment, shame etc. that you caused yourself, it’ll just fade into nothing. Wrong! It will sit there and muck up all of your chakras, and probably cause health issues (I know it did for me). Things don’t truly get better until you learn your Universal lesson, and forgive your mistakes.
We All Make Mistakes
At the end of the day, we are all human, we all make mistakes. We all do things we wish we hadn’t. The key to a truly joyful experience is letting it go and truly accepting that you are living the life that you are meant to, and you will make mistakes along your journey. But remember, everything leads you closer to your life purpose which is where we all want to be.
How To Forgive Yourself
Your Are Perfect Just As You Are
Remember my loves, you are perfect the way you are. You were designed to live the experience that you are living. Be kind to yourself and don’t hold yourself to impossible standards. You will make mistakes, forgive yourself and learn from them. You are a beautiful being of light.
Peace and Love,